We live in a globalized world,and we are aware of everything.
We know what's going on in the whole world,not everything but to a greater extent.If someone says,they don't know who is the president of a country,we just open our mouths wide open and give a bad expression.People nowadays are lot more gadget freaks and tech freaks.They love everything about technology.
Lets take up a example
You and you're friend are going out to a park, which is nearer to your house.You choose the best outfit you have.There will be one person to put your self esteem down by saying something negative
about your outfit or the way you dressed.They will a lot meaner things said by people all time.
Even if you are in school,they will be people mocking you all time.
They will be sitting next to you,your classmates or your friends.My question is ,is it necessary to listen to all those things said by your sick friends??
Think for a minute.Is it really worth it to listen to all the silly things they say?Are you sure that you don't take any of the hate to your heart?Think and make sure that you are not making your self crazy by all that thinking and feeling lonely and bad.
People go crazy by taking all the negative hate and make themselves dive into depression and self hate.Is it really necessary to take up all the hate to yourself.Other's opinions will gradually turn into self hate by the following ways.
HOW THIS NEGATIVITY MAKES YOU GLIDE???
1.When you start thinking more about what others said.
2.When you make yourself feel uncomfortable by thinking about it all the time.
3.When you start giving the top priority to others.
4.When you stop loving your self.
So,by all these factors,you might just loose hope on yourself.Giving the first priority to others,means you are loosing your own control on yourself.You should be the number one priority and you should be showing love toward yourself.People will always be out there saying all mean things about you.They will always take you down by their words and actions.You have an awesome life which you have to enjoy all the time.Its time that you throw shade at people's opinions and live your life.
People who hate themselves will say the mean comments.God gave us an amazing life and we have to live our lives to the fullest.Let me give you a point to make you think about all this.
1.Make yourself the top most priority.
2.love yourself.
3.Its not how you dress,Its how you see yourself in the mirror
4.Feel confident inside.
5.Build a strong attitude.
Building a strong attitude here means,that you should have a strong behavior.Attitude is nothing but combo of your behaviors.It really reflects your response to your external environment.Do you normally respond or take it personally to what other say.
They will be a lot of things you will hear about yourself.Remember when people start saying you things,it means that you are growing.Here they may say positive or negative.We should be very strongly determined that we should take both positive and negative in the same way.When we hear a lot of positive stuff,we should not flow on cloud nine. When we hear about negative stuff we should not break down. Life is all about balancing yourself.The better the balancing,the better your life cycle. We should be like water flowing all the time.Water resembles the shape it occupies.When you are getting positive or negative comments,you should be taking them equally.
1.Listen to your heart.
2.You are the best critic,no one is.
3.Live your live to the fullest.
4.Enjoy each and every moment.We don't know what comes next.
Let go all the hatred.Its best to live your life on your own terms and ideals.
You are a beautiful soul on this earth and you should not be affected by anyone.Today,they might say a word.Tomorrow they will comment on other.Why you should think about them.Let go and make peace with yourself.
You should be the one motivating yourself all the time.You should be your strength and power.You should walk the road to your destiny like walking on the ramp. Its okay if people say a word, cause that word will never affect your lives.Say yes to being you rather than being others.If you choose living by others,that means you are inviting other people's opinions to your life.
Stay positive and stay strong.
Be you.
Life is too short to ignore it.Chase your fears and dreams.It will be rockiest and bumpiest road front,but never fear cause you have your weapon called confidence all by your side.
Positivity comes to those who face all their fears .Negativity comes to those who obeys their fears.Choose your side and live your side.Its best to rule than to be ruled.
One motto for life
#live and let live
You fight you win
Never listen to others.
You are your priority.
You should be the one motivating yourself all the time.You should be your strength and power.You should walk the road to your destiny like walking on the ramp. Its okay if people say a word, cause that word will never affect your lives.Say yes to being you rather than being others.If you choose living by others,that means you are inviting other people's opinions to your life.
Stay positive and stay strong.
Be you.
Remember you are a super star of your very own kind.You are special and unique.There will be no one to destroy you,except you.
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